Shame is a belief that ‘I’m not good enough.’ You can’t manufacture it on your own – someone else has to give it to you. In this podcast, Psychotherapist Kim Honeycutt addresses, shame, blame the trauma of rejection. She brilliantly highlights our intrinsic worth, our identity in Christ, and the journey from rejection to acceptance.

QUOTES

“So much of our surrender to the Lord is (about) unlearning what key people in our lives taught us.”

“Your emotional maturity and your spiritual fulfillment will never surpass each other, they will always be the same.”

“You’re not born with shame, someone else has to give it to you. A child doesn’t criticize him or herself, it’s a learned behavior. Shame will always tell me I am wrong, not that I did something wrong, but that all of me is wrong.”

“Personality is not who you are, it’s who you aren’t. It’ what you present with so people don’t get any closer to you so they can’t hurt you.”

“John 3:30, ’He must decrease, I must decrease…’ what I am decreasing is anything that tells me I have to earn.”

 “The opposite of blame is responsibility.”

For more on Kim Honeycutt
www.kimhoneycutt.com
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Podcast intro and outro music by Wilde Assembly

Derek Turner Follower of Jesus, in love with @sarahjturner, father to @caro.turn & @kaaatters, owner of Milo, pastor @rivercharlotte. Amazed by Grace
www.rivercharlotte.com

Jason Clark is a writer, speaker, and lead communicator at A Family Story ministries. His mission is to encourage sons and daughters to grow sure in the love of an always-good heavenly Father. He and his wife, Karen, live in North Carolina with their three children.

2 Comments

  1. Tineke Ziemer

    This was excellent! So so so much I could relate to. Kim has an amazing story and such a beautiful perspective on things. I love how strong and bold she is, and how she is empowering women through her example. Thank you for giving us this gift.

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    • Jason Clark

      Yeah, this interview was rich for me. Kim is so authentic, humble, and practically profoundly helpul – was really cool, to have her on.

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